Choose Love or Choose Being Alone, Either Way You Get to Choose
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Advisor , writes… …
A Relationship Coach for people with self-confidence or self-esteem issues is extremely valuable in addressing this following question. Women tend to suffer the most from trust, abandonment and lack of feelings of being worthy problems. Life Coaching for Women is one solution to solve this problem in life coaching. Anita asks: “Are some of us just destined to be lonely forever”? Anita, since you responded to our survey concerning relationships and the Law of Attraction, I am assuming you’ve considering creating a relationship for yourself. Many people choose to stay out of intimate relationships. And that need not be the situation for someone who’s given up after they have continuously failed in the past. Not a thing is wrong with wanting to be without a serious relationship. Life can be fulfilling and fantastic with any decision you make.
As long as you know you’re deciding that rather than giving up out of frustration that you have not found the love of a lifetime. You can acquire it all in a relationship and in life.
If you could view yourself from the point of view of Source or your Inner Being, or the Universe, you’d see a wonderful, magnificent, illuminated, connected consciousness. Then life starts to happen around us. Our oblivious parents, teachers, and elders, in an attempt to teach us, tell us from the beginning what we need to look out for, warn us, caution us, and attempt to shelter us, effectively having us listen to their fears and insecurities instead of tuning in to our personal energy. OK, I will give you as brand new creatures we do require protection. Fine. But soon after they understand to function by themselves, self-empowerment needs to be part of the training for the little ones.
Well-intentioned adults desire to do the right thing so they guide, hold back, admonish, and instil fear in young ones to make them behave. This only underscores an underlying insecurity and inability. The feeling of not-enoughness gets instilled as a child.
Brain research now explains to us that before the age of 7, we are so open and available to receive, we have no filtering ability at all. We walk around in a sort of hypnagogic trance and become impressed with whatever happens to enter our life experience. It’s no wonder we have deeply ingrained, although misplaced, thoughts about a flawed nature. By the time we are 6 years old, we have heard the word “NO” approximately 60,000 times. Look out for that, that could hurt you, be careful, don’t drop that. The subliminal communication says you’re unworthy, you can’t trust you, you do not understand what you’re doing, and so on.
Our parents and elders were certainly well-meaning. They simply wanted our well-being. But you can see how simply we have been whisked away from our inherent beauty and brilliance.
I recommend that you go easy with yourself and let yourself have a break. Firstly, it’s not your fault. It is not even the fault of your parents. They were programmed that way too. You can end the perpetration of lower self-esteem on yourself and those you care about. You deserve to have anything you wants.
Do your very best to express yourself love and self-acceptance. Treat yourself as you would a beloved child. Forgive her for her shortcomings. The truth is, the Universe adores, Spirit admires you, and your Inner Being adores you. Why? Because you ARE adorable. And that IS the reality!
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