Four Reasons Why Women Dump Men
There are four causes why women dump men. Even with just one of these problems in the relationship, a breakup will eventually happen. We will examine the four big causes so that you will be able to take a look at your own relationship and determine if it is in jeopardy.
The first thing is control, which can be two sided. When a man or woman is controlling, they will push their partner away from them, even if the relationship is otherwise excellent. Women specifically like being independent in this day and age, so give her some time to herself from time to time. However women will need some occasional space; you just don’t need to be there breathing down her neck all the time. For example, going out with her friends for coffee and “girl talk.” There may be no rhyme or reason to it, but these outings are necessary for the woman to relax.
The second reason is jealousy. Nothing is more hurtful to a relationship than a jealous man spying on his woman and what she is doing. Jealous is a dangerous issue that must be dealt with. A woman’s love will die with bursts of jealousy from the man. When you let jealousy rear it’s head, you are doubting her love and her fidelity. With each display of jealousy, the man is deteriorating their relationship.
The next thing is that women do not want a man that is not strong, as women tend to like confident men that take initiative. Women are searching for a man that can handle situations and not someone that is needy and always expects someone else to step up and take care of things. A woman craves someone that is strong, knowing that her man can take care of her when the chips are down. So start to make some decisions, stand up for yourself, and be confident.
The last thing is that no one likes to live with a bum. A woman seeks protection and needs the comfort of being secure and that her man is able to provide for her. If you just waste your time sitting at home watching TV or playing video games you woman probably resents this. Try to find something in life that really excites you and focus on that. Get clear about your values and live your life in alignment with them. Women feel uncontrollable attraction toward men that have a purpose in life–why do you think so many women fall for musicians and artist? Women like to tell pretty much everyone about how their men make them feel and how exciting he is. This isn’t going to happen if you just waste your time away.
If you can deal with these four issues in a relationship, you will have a long blissful relationship with any woman. If you notice any of these four things in yourself then you will probably have a hard time establishing a lasting relationship with any woman.
If you found this article helpful and are looking for more information on what to do after you’ve been dumped, check out Why Women Leave Us, Why Did She Dump You?, and Jason Hicks’ Second Chance Romance Review.
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