How To Win Her Back – With A Few Solid Psychological Tactics
Maybe you’ve recently split up and you want her back. Discover how to win her back with a few psychological tactics. A few people may frown on the use of tactics like these, but who cares what they think. The important thing is to win her back.
Most people are blind to it but we are manipulated almost every day by psychological tactics. Not just our partners and friends, but employers and even the government are at it. A typical example is the employee of the month. Employers are using psychological mind games to increase production.
Get her to call you without asking
This is how it goes. We nearly all love receiving letters, as long as they aren’t bills. You send her a handwritten note. You tell her how good things are for you right now and that you would like to thank her.
This works in two ways. First she’s curious and then comes the pride. The note mentions a “thank you”, she can’t for the life of her think why you would thank her. There’s the curiosity. And the pride comes in when she realises you’ve thanked her for something good she’s done. She cannot resist calling you to find out why you thanked her. You say thank you for (the breakup) making you realise it was the right thing.
The only reason for sending the letter is to make her call you back. You can play this so she actually thinks you got back together because she called you. Because in the letter you never asked her to call you. But the letter did its job and she called anyway.
You can get hold of the exact letter to send later. I’ll show you where. There are some other neat little moves just like this one.
Play on her good memories
You can use her favourite things to further your quest to win her back. If for instance you know what her all time fav song is, you can use this. Food and smells are good as well.
Say she calls you (after she got your letter), you can have her fav song on in the background just loud enough that she hears it. In the back of her mind when she thinks of that song she thinks of the most recent time she heard it, that was on the phone to you. Linking her fav song with you then transfers some of the good stuff she feels about the song to you.
Curious jealousy
Get your self out with some friends but make sure you are seen to be having a great time. But more importantly you engineer it so that she also knows you had a great time.
Don’t go out on a 1 to 1 date as this may well scare her off completely. But a friends night out will make her feel a bit jealous as she was left out. She definitely doesn’t expect you to be moving on so quick after the breakup. This can work by making her feel she should be part of the fun.
Those are just a few of the many psychological mind games you can use to win her back. Other may look on them as wrong, but they aren’t going to do any lasting harm. They are quite simple and harmless. Of course you don’t want to be using them just willy nilly.
You need to be using them as part of an overall master plan to win her back. If you don’t have a proper step by step system to follow you are going in blind. Failure is likely without a plan.
Have a look at what I think are the best couple systems to help you to win her back at my website…
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